by Audra Krell

12/03/2011 13:56 pm

Traditionally the end of the year offers cause for reflection. We think about the highs, lows and tweeners. We resolve to have less butter, batter, and maybe a few more baths. Some will strive for less whining and a little more wine, while others know they should cut out both altogether. People will commit to step off the scale and finally skate. Others will learn to breathe deeply while some will loosen up and quit holding their breath quite so much. Families will commit to less caffeinating and more hydrating, less chocolate and more charity.

Reflections and resolutions guide us forward. Clarify your family's year by having each member fill out a Completion Sheet. Create a yearly review based on the theme of your family and dedicate time to coming together, individually filling out the sheet and then sharing thoughts. At the bottom of the page, include a statement about the year being in the past and have each member sign their name as a commitment to the future. Choose one person to archive the sheets, which can be shared in the years to come.

We are a huge music loving family, so I chose musical questions for our Completion Sheet.

Here is our example with my personal answers:

2011 - COMPLETE

1.) If your life this past year could be summed up in a country song, what would it be?

You're Gonna Miss This by Trace Adkins (So tough when your kids leave for college)

2.) What spiritual song best describes the past year?

The Words I Would Say by Sidewalk Prophets (I believe my family/friends were created to do great things and they did in 2011)

3.) What classical song best describes 2011?

Moonlight Sonata by Beethoven (The haunting melody touches the deepest place on long, dark nights)

4.) What classic rock song describes an event in 2011?

Dirty Laundry by Don Henley (Oldest home from college.)

5.) What song do you want next year to be described by?

Disney Dreams Do Come True - JUST KIDDING!

Of course it's Live Like You Were Dying by Tim McGraw

Personalize yours with movie questions, TV shows, sports, board games, hobbies or the theme of your family. As you can see, answers can be humorous, deeply serious or perfectly matched to life. Some people may not be able to answer all questions, but this is a great way to preserve family memories, share meaningful discussions and put the past where it belongs.

Audra Krell is a freelance writer, speaker and vocalist who lives in Scottsdale, AZ with her amazing husband and three teen boys. Friend her on Facebook and follow her on twitter @AudraKrell.

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