Do you still have that sexy spark in your relationship? What is missing? When was the last time you did something new and different with your significant other?
My partner and I recently celebrated our anniversary. We were so pleased with our strong foundation of unconditional love and support. We relished our accomplishment so much that we relaxed a little bit ... and gently slid into a routine. Granted, it was a fantastic rut full of wining and dining, connecting conversation, and relaxation. Still, we were coasting. We knew we loved each other; we weren't saying it as much. We knew we were attracted to each other; we weren't expressing it as much. The spark was dim.
What is the solution to the slump? First, be grateful for what you do have. Sincerely thank your partner for everything that you love and lust about each other. Then, build upon it in your own unique way.
What made you click in the beginning? How could you recreate (or reenact) it? My partner and I go to the restaurant where we connected for each anniversary and reminisce. What is your relationship missing? What will bring back the spark?
Based on your answers to those questions, create a 30-day theme. My partner and I chose "Sex and Fun!" Again, we have a strong foundation of unconditional love and support. It just got a little serious.
Now we're back to tickling and teasing, triple the intimacy (yes, you can make time), and we have bowling and baseball games coming up. Using my 30 Dates in 30 Days love system, we have a list of 30 things that are "fun and sex." When our imagination isn't burning full steam, the list will give us ideas of what to do.
What will be your theme? What are 30 dates you could go on? Knowing you are busy, fabulous women with full lives, make sure 15 of your dates can be done in 15 minutes. Making out in the back seat only takes 15 minutes and it's very fun! What exciting things did you enjoy in the beginning that would ignite the spark today?
My partner and I are having a blast together! We clicked into each other again and ignited our sexy spark!
Light your relationship fire! Do my Love Tip: Chemistry Click and a Sexy Spark! You are worth it. He is worth it. Your relationship is worth it.
"The only thing that can grow is the thing you give energy to."Ralph Waldo Emerson
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LOVE TIP: CHEMISTRY CLICK AND A SEXY SPARK
1. What made you click with your significant other in the beginning? What caused the spark in your relationship? What is missing today?
2. Create a list of 30 things that will ignite the spark in your relationship again. I know you are busy and successful women; make sure there are at least 15 things you can do within 15 minutes.
3. Enjoy the chemistry click and sexy spark doing 30 Dates in 30 Days with your partner!
