Why are men today so intimidated by successful women? The good news is that not all men are intimidated by successful women. Many women today can take care of themselves. Some men wonder if they have anything to offer you. A man may also see your success and feel as though he is not "enough."
Now, please do not make the mistake that some women do and play down your talents. Being the real you serves as your Mr. Wrong repellent. The men who are not a match for you won't even bother. The next time a guy is intimidated by you say, 'Thank you' and 'Next!' Don't lower your standards just to have anybody give you attention.
In the past, I kept looking outside myself for the love. I kept being someone I was not just to have someone notice me. I didn't know then what I know now: true love starts with me. It starts with reconnecting to the real me and completely loving that woman.
When do you feel like the real you? When was the most meaningful time in your life? When are you at your best?
Who are you when you are at your best? What are your top three qualities when you are at your best? Work it! Own it!
What do I mean by "own it?" When you own it, you stand strong in who you are and recognize yourself. You do not play down your unique beauty and success. You will have what you truly desire when you simply embrace the real you.
You are going to acknowledge and be your best qualities today. If you don't remember exactly how, if you are disconnected from that part of you, you are going to emulate those qualities. Remember who you were and how you were in your prime. Call a friend who knew you during the best phase of your life to help you reconnect. Reminisce on your glory day stories and begin to feel like yourself again. Give yourself permission to be that woman today. Imagine the positive shifts you could create today simply by owning your unique, authentic qualities!
What could this simple exercise change in your life? You could attract an incredible man. You could accomplish your career goals. What is possible for you now?
Instinctively answer the following question right now: what are my top three qualities when I am at my best? Trust yourself to choose your unique qualities; they are innate. When you listen to yourself, you will know the answer. Write them down. Place your words where you can see them and connect with you every day. Own it. It's you.
When I stepped into and owned the real me, I attracted Mr. Right. I am love, power, and abundance; I attracted a romantic, powerful, generous, and hot Englishman!
My advice to you is to be the real you and you will attract Mr. Right.
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