Do you desire more
attention, adoration, and affection from your significant other? Have you ever made mistakes trying to gain a
man's attention in the past? Have you
"lost that loving feeling" in your relationship? Do you talk about the same things at the end
of the day with your husband? Do you
make yourself available all the time, just in case he's not
watching football for the tenth Sunday in a row? It's time to shake things up and re-ignite
the spark!
There is the cliche, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Yes, that is true ... once you have established "presence." What is presence? Presence is being the authentic you and he is consistently and positively responding. He is hanging on your every word, your every feminine gesture. He wants you. He does nice things for you. Bottom line, you know he's into you and he can't get enough of you.
Once you have established presence with him, temporarily and gracefully withdraw. You may go on a girls' weekend. You may go to a yoga retreat. You may go to Vegas ... just for the night. "Absence" will excite and entice him! Mystery is a powerful, alluring quality; it drives men wild (in a good way)!
As a bonus, choose something exciting to do while you are temporarily away. Give yourself the gift of a special, indulgent experience. What have you always wanted to do and haven't ... yet? What would get your juices flowing? Give yourself permission to really enjoy! Then, return to your love and share your essence. What do I mean by essence? It is simply your natural glow. You actually don't have to do a thing except be present in the immediate moment ... and he will fall for you all over again.
My partner and I are passionately in love. Yes, I am consistently growing and lead an interesting life. There was just another part of me I wanted to deeply experience: my spirituality. So, I spontaneously flitted off to California and attended a meditation retreat. I gave myself a beautiful gift that I really treasure. When I returned to my partner, my heart was wide open and on fire. I had a lightness of spirit. I was glowing. My partner was blown away by my beauty and happiness. I barely told him what I did; the mystery was more exciting for him, anyway. He was simply ecstatic to embrace the elated me upon my return.
Creating "presence," then temporary absence is powerful in love. You will also benefit from it in your career and business. For example, present the authentic, powerful you at a specific networking organization. Make sure you attract and engage with those you desire to do business. Once you know you have established a sought after presence, purposefully schedule important engagements on the dates of the next two meetings to create intrigue and increased interest. And watch your sales rise.
This is not about playing games! This is about honoring yourself, presenting the authentic you, doing something you love ... and inadvertently creating mystery and intense desire in your partner.
Enjoy and drink in the renewed love ... and lust.